I’m writing this private update from Angola in Central Africa exactly where I have just arrived. I have only been in the nation for significantly less than an hour however I have located myself:
- Missing my pre-arranged transfer due to the time modify in the flight and possessing to barter with a taxi driver.
- Refusing a lift with a lady who claimed she was a taxi (contact me more than cautious but I choose to get into a registered taxi than with just any one).
- Standing my ground with the boss of the taxi driver that I chose to take just after he agreed to 7,000 and his boss then demanded 10,000 Angolan Kwanza (£23).
I have arrived at the hotel to the receptionist telling me that she cancelled my area due to the fact I wasn’t at the airport when my transfer arrived. Soon after a significant sincere apology I am lastly settling into Angola, a nation which is lately opening its doors to tourism just after experiencing 4 decades of an on/off civil war.
Rewind two months and I had arrived in Ghana in West Africa as a vulnerable solo traveller. If you had noticed me you would have honestly believed that I had by no means travelled alone just before. If truth be recognized I was scared of going to this African area solo. It was fully outdoors of my comfort zone, pretty culturally various and I was actually stepping into the unknown.
Now as I have flown back to join the finish of the original trip that I had booked (study this post for my African itinerary), I really feel as although I am a entirely various particular person arriving in Africa. I have stepped into a various persona and really feel straight away empowered and as although “I can do this.”
Gone is that scared lady who had no thought what to do in Africa to a person who is confident and assertive. I couldn’t be any various and however once more, it is portion of the transformation that travel brings.
I wanted to create this post to reflect on the adjustments that solo travel brings of the unfamiliar that adjustments to a weirdly comfy familiarity. The reality is that you will by no means going to be 100% ready no matter how significantly arranging you do beforehand, how a lot of men and women you speak to who have personally been there or how significantly reassurance you get from supportive groups such as the Girls about the Globe Facebook neighborhood.
As with something, you study from really undertaking it, from getting there, from generating moment to moment choices that let you to make your personal errors and develop.
Travel is a voyage of private discovery and it tends to make you step up. No matter how significantly you want to be in your comfort zone it whisks you out and plonks you into uncertainty. Admittedly it can differ from nation to nation. A weekend in Rome might not have the exact same challenges that Central Africa might bring but functioning out how to get about, how to converse without the need of speaking the regional language and how to invest an evening alone can be just as daunting.
So, I am writing this post to reassure you if you are a scared solo traveller that it is okay to be overwhelmed by your trip, no matter whether or not it is a lengthy weekend away or you have sold every thing and are arranging a a single-way trip about the globe. The anxiousness and doubts are equally as measurable. But, recall that every single trip is a stepping stone.
That empowering feeling of “I’m undertaking this!” is addictive. However it can only be seasoned by stepping up and receiving out of your comfort zone. I am now in nation 126 however I am nonetheless experiencing the transformation that solo travel brings. My nerves have changed into ones of excitement and I really feel prepared for Africa. If I am nonetheless travelling solo then honestly, any one can.
Bring it on planet!
P.S. I hope this post has inspired you to travel solo. I’d really like to hear your comments on whether or not solo travel has empowered you. If you require some suggestions and reassurance that you can travel solo do not overlook to join our Facebook neighborhood x
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